I have been using dating platforms for 18 months already. During this period of time I’ve discovered that some people have a huge success with online dating, while others are wasting precious time without finding a real date. As a woman, it is extremely important to know how to attract a man and make them get interested in you. It is equally important to know which dating platform is the most suitable for you.
Here is what I’ve learned from online dating for the past 18 months:
A provocative profile picture attracts 20 times more attention than a modest one
I have literally created dozens of accounts on many online dating platforms. On some of the dating sites I used plain, unattractive pictures of me, while on others I uploaded more seductive photos. As it is to be expected, guys were much more interested in me when I showed a little cleavage.
Takeaway: If you want guys to notice you, compliment you, offer you that affirmation you need or ask you out, a provocative and seductive profile photo is the right choice for you.
Most guys don’t look anything like their profile photos
Most guys are not who they are online; they either upload photos of hot guys they find on google, or they post their most (ridiculously) flattering picture. Out of ten guys I met in this period of 18 months, only one had a profile picture that really represented himself – an no, he wasn’t the cutest guy I’ve ever seen.
Shy guys are not so shy once you get to know them:
In fact, guys who are shy in the beginning might prove to be quite extroverts after a few days. I prefer these kinds of guys instead of those “regular” guys who are cocky and talkative from the beginning.
Takeaway: Don’t judge a guy just because he is quiet. The most interesting dates I went on where with guys who were not flamboyant and extroverted.
Latin guys are hot. Chinese… not so much
Latin guys are 10 times more romantic than your average gringo. Latin guys really know how to make a girl feel special. In contrast, Asian guys did not manage to impress me at all. All they talked about was technology, universities and business. I definitely prefer dating Hispanics guys.
Takeaway: The label “Latin Lover” is well deserved.
All Guys Just Want Sex
Duhh, this is a no-brainer of course. Out of all of the guys I went out, 100% of them hinted about sex very early on our relationship. Even the “nice guys” who where looking for a “long-term relationship” and where looking to “settle down” where all to eager to take it out and whip it at me.
Phone dating chatlines are often overlooked:
Many people hype up online dating, but they forget that phone dating is the new trend of the decade. In my opinion, phone dating is more fun, cheaper, easier to use and much more reliable. I have found two very good dates using phone dating chatlines, and I strongly recommend you to at least try these type of services if you’ve never called one before.
Rich Guys Are Fun… For a While
Though you should not marry because of money, I don’t see the harm in dating rich guys for a while. Dating guys you meet on affair dating websites such as Ashley Madison and VictoriaMilan.us is fun and lucrative (if you are a good looking). Guys on these sites really knew how to spoil me. I guess it has to do with the fact that they are older and have more money to spend on you.
Despite the recent data breach, this site remains the world’s leading dating service for married people. (the site has over 41 million anonymous members at the moment). Here’s an Ashley Madison review by a real woman
Tinder Is For Booty Calls Only
Most guys on Tinder are just looking to hook up. Here’s how to determine if the guy you are talking on Tinder is simply looking to hook up with you and is not interested in a long-term relationship:
Plenty of Fish is free and has everything the paid services offer (and sometimes even more)
The Canadian company has made a name for themselves in the dating world as the best in terms of features and benefits. The fact that it’s free of charge adds to the plethora of advantages Plenty of Fish have. There are plenty of fish on this network waiting to be caught.
You can learn a lot of amazing things by spending time on dating sites. However, what you need to remember is that shy Latino guys are by far the best choice. Additionally, try to use a provocative picture if you want to spike interest and get the attention of males. Do not overlook phone dating and try to capitalize on the benefits offered by Plenty of Fish. If you really want to be spoiled and you are married, Ashley Madison is the right choice for you.
The online dating industry has grown exponentially in the last decade. Dating sites such as Match.com, OKCupid, Tinder, Meetup and Plenty of Fish have skyrocketed, bringing together tens of millions of men and women from all around the world. More and more people decide to use dating sites to their advantage and make the most out of this genuine opportunity to find a date or meet the love of their lives. I am one of these people who have maximized the true potential of dating sites.